How to Teach Etiquette
I’m at Starbucks, ostensibly writing progress reports, but there is the loudest American here. She has been going on and on about how rude Koreans are. After listening to a diatribe that was in progress when I walked in and continued while I organized my stuff, ordered, received my order, and for a few minutes after that, I finally realized she was teaching a private. When she finally paused for breath, her two students added ways they think ajummas are rude, then she finished up by asking if there was anything else to say about etiquette. I wanted to jump in and say– how about not yelling about how crap you think the residents of a country are when you are in public in that country?
I live and work in an area where even the ajummas that push fliers in your hand can speak some English. It’s not too much of a stretch that the various people in here with their English language dailies and novels are capable of getting the gist of the “lesson” on rude Koreans. I know, venting about the rudeness one deals with in daily life is one of my hobbies, but I try not to speak at 11 in a quiet, public space while doing so.